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Dare to Believe
By: Author Unknown
EVERYBODY KNOWS ...
You can''t be all things to all people.
You can''t do all things at once.
You can''t do all things equally well.
You can''t do all things better than everyone else.
Your humanity is showing just like everyone else''s.
SO ...
You have to find out who you are, and be that.
You have to decide what comes first, and do that.
You have to discover your strengths, and use them.
You have to learn not to compete with others,
Because no one else is in the contest of "being you."
THEN ...
You will have learned to accept your own uniqueness.
You will have learned to set priorities and make decisions.
You will have learned to live with your limitations.
You will have learned to give yourself the respect that is due,
And you''ll be a most vital mortal.
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DARE TO BELIEVE ...
That you are a wonderful, unique person.
That you are a once-in-all-history event.
That it''s more than a right, it''s your duty, to be who you are.
That life is not a problem to solve, but a gift to cherish.
And you''ll be able to stay one up on what used to get you down.
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I love my job, I love no pay!
I love it more and more each day.
I love making tea and biscuits galore,
Social workers, I simply adore.
I love my house and its location; I never get to have a vacation.
I love my furniture, drab and grey, and piles of paper that grow each day!
I think my job is really swell, there's nothing else I love so well.
I love to work with other carers, I love their leers, and jeers, and sneers.
I love my computer and its software; I hug it often though it won't care.
I love each program and every file. I’d love them more if they worked a while. I’m happy to be here. I am. I am.
I'm the happiest carer in the world, I am. I love this work, I love these chores. I love the meetings with deadly bores.
I love my job - I'll say it again - I even love those friendly men.
Those friendly men who've come today, in clean white coats to take me away!!!!!
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“Imagination”
Imagine a new understanding
We’ve waited patiently now for years
The pain we’ve suffered through STIGMA
Has created a river of tears
Imagine holding our heads up high
No more whisperings-secrets or lies
Lets bare the soul of Mental Distress
No more need for it’s meagre disguise
Imagine that Carer’s talk openly
We don’t hide behind assumed names
We talk about loved ones with pride and respect
Long gone are the feelings of shame
Imagine a new understanding
Equal amounts of compassion
Get well cards-flowers-comforting words
Will never again be on ration
Imagine that reporters change the way that they write
Words like Schitzo and Psycho are finally kept out of sight
Imagine a new understanding
No more alienation from the norm
Imagine that new generations
Are educated from the day they are born
Imagine our neighbours welcoming us
No more protests as to where we reside
Social inclusion won’t be an illusion
Imagine the lift to our pride
It’s time 4 change it’s time for the truth
To relieve decades of painful frustration
Imagine we make this a reality
Not a figment of IMAGINATION.
Georgina Wakefield
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Life after Death |
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Life after Death
Now I''m retired
And lost my wife
What shall I do
With the rest of my life?
I''ve been thro'' the mill
And suffered the pain
I''ve learnt about stress
Frustration and strain.
I''ll use the knowledge
Now I''ve passed the test
To help all those
Who are lost and bereft.
My love has flown
To her celestial nest
My beloved spouse
Is now at rest.
My heart was dead
My brain distraught,
Full of sorrow
I cared for nought.
But then a voice
From deep inside
Said "Love one another"
Let me be your guide.
My heart is now full
Of the joy I can give
To those who have suffered
And need a reason to live.
So lift up your hearts
Do not despair
Spread happiness and live
Show the world that you CARE.
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SHE DIDN''T MEAN IT
She didn''t mean to spill that drink
She didn''t mean to choke on it
It doesn''t matter what you think
Compared to yours her life''s just sh**
She didn''t mean to wet the bed
The signals just don''t reach her head
She didn''t mean to get annoyed with you
With her MS you''d be annoyed too
If you ever think YOUR life''s a mess
REMEMBER
SHE DIDN''T MEAN TO GET MS.
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Posted by wendy on Sunday, September 20, 2009 @ 10:49:44 BST
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Campaigners say no to green paper's proposal for attendance allowance
Posted: 11 September 2009 |
writes Mark Hunter
Disability user groups are rallying round to defend the attendance allowance from proposals that could see it absorbed into the social care kitty. Mark Hunter reports
The slow-burning furore over government claims that there is a case for integrating disability benefits such as attendance allowance (AA) into the general social care system, appears to have caught many charities and service user groups on the hop.
Most adopted a low-key response to the proposal when it was published in July's green paper Shaping the Future of Care Together.
They pointed out that the plan is tentative, open to consultation and contained within the "greenest of green papers". The government has said it will retain the current benefit system's flexibility and promised that no one currently in receipt of the attendance allowance will lose it.
Moreover, the policy is highly unlikely to survive a change of government. In short, it will probably never happen. As a spokesperson for Age Concern and Help the Aged says: "We absolutely support the attendance allowance and the fact that it is flexible and not means tested. But at the moment we are awaiting further developments from the government, because the last thing we want to do is to alarm people who currently receive these benefits by suggesting that they will lose them, because they won't."
However, in the weeks that followed the green paper's publication, a groundswell of dissent began to form. On blogs and message boards, campaigners and service users expressed fears that unless the proposals were vigorously resisted, it would offer a green light to the next government, whatever its complexion, to declare open season on AA and similar benefits such as disability living allowance.
The Royal National Institute for the Blind, which estimates that over 53,000 blind and partially sighted people currently receive AA, started a campaign in its defence.
Not means-tested
"The important thing about AA is that it's not means-tested and it's not based on your national insurance contributions which obviously a lot of disabled people don't have," says Geoff Fimister the RNIB's campaigns officer.
"It's also been called the original personal budget because it's up to the individual what they spend it on, whether that's on taxis to help them get about or paying for some extra practical help in the home. Research has also shown that a lot of people spend their AA on extra heating and food so its role in helping people on low incomes shouldn't be underestimated."
Fimister believes that if the benefit were dissolved into the social care kitty, these funds would become means-tested, cash-limited and rationed. He has no doubt that the plan is a cost-cutting exercise. At a forecasted £5bn for the financial year 2009-10, real term spending on AA in the UK has almost doubled in the past eight years.
"After spending billions on the bankers' bale out, the government has got its beady eye on the AA as a way of plugging the gap in the social care system," says Fimister.
"They've said that existing claimants will be protected, although they haven't said how. But that's not the point. It's the future we are talking about and if blind and partially sighted people have to take their chances with the social care rationing system then experience suggests that many will lose out."
The offending paragraph in the green paper states there is "a case for drawing some funding streams together" of which the AA is given as an example. But, in fact, the case for integrating the AA into social services was examined thoroughly only last year by the Institute for Social and Economic Research.
Its report comprehensively rejected the idea, concluding that while a transfer of resources from social security benefits to social services might deliver more care to a small number of very disabled people, a much larger number of moderately disabled people would lose out. The move would also increase the amount of means-testing and reduce disabled people's sense of independence.
Who pays for funding?
Author of the report Professor Richard Berthoud says: "No one disagrees with the need for a better system of paying for social care. But who should pay for the increased public funding of much needed care for very old or severely disabled people? Should it be taxpayers in the middle and upper ends of the income distribution? Or should it be other disabled people?"
The green paper's consultation period ends on 13 November. Spurred into action by their own forums and message boards, most disability user groups have now followed the RNIB's lead and issued statements in support of attendance allowance.
The message to any government eyeing up attendance allowance is clear. Hands off!
What is attendence allowance?
The AA is a tax-free benefit for people aged 65 or over who need help with personal care because they are physically disabled or mentally ill. About 1.58 million people currently claim it; two-thirds are aged over 80. AA is not means-tested and is usually awarded without a medical examination.
It is paid directly to claimants who may spend it on whatever they like. Higher rate AA is £70.35 per week; lower rate is £47.10 per week. AA may also act as a gateway to other benefits such as housing benefit, council tax benefit and pension credit.
Allowance provides independence and peace of mind
Linda Trench was 79 when she was diagnosed with the eye condition age-related macular degeneration in 2001. Today she is registered as partially sighted but determined to maintain her independence. For the past three months she has been receiving the lower rate AA of £47.10 per week.
"It's already made a huge difference," she says. "The biggest thing is the peace of mind.
I'm determined to manage on my own so it's a great relief to know that I don't have to depend on others. I'm spoiled rotten by my neighbours and my daughter but one hates to ask too much of people. Now I can easily take a taxi if I need to get somewhere. I wouldn't dream of wasting the money. I'll use it to help with things related to my condition, like getting to the hospital. But I wouldn't use it to go and see a friend."
Trench was helped to apply for the AA by the RNIB's benefits adviser Jean Welch through the charity's Here to Help partnership with British Gas. Now in its seventh year the partnership has reclaimed over £2m in unclaimed benefits for blind and partially-sighted people.
"I had actually applied for AA some time before but been turned down," says Trench. "It's a very long form and I suppose I must have filled it in wrong. But Jean helped me do it again and even though nothing had changed, they decided I was eligible this time."
The allowance payments were backdated, giving Trench a lump sum of over £1,000. This allowed her to buy a Clearview video magnifier that, used with a computer, is designed to help visually impaired people read text.
"I bought it second-hand for £800 which I couldn't have afforded in a million years if I hadn't had the allowance," she says. "It really is marvellous and means that I can read letters and bank statements. I used to use a hand magnifier but it was very slow and you have to hunch right over, which gets rather uncomfortable after a while. Now I can read sitting up."
This article appears in the 17 September issue of Community Care magazine under the heading Alarm over allowance
www.communitycare.co.uk/Articles/2009/09/11/112560/campaigners-say-no-to-green-papers-proposal-for-attendance.html
For more information on the RNIB British Gas Here to Help programme call RNIB on 0845 330 4897
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1.On 16th October 2007 a member spoke in the Houses of Parliament at the All Party Parliamentary Group for Carers.
Carers are in crisis and want actions to be taken urgently. Here are some proposals.
Do away with the overlapping benefits rule
Carers allowance to be increased
More respite to be available and when it is arranged it is not cancelled at the last minute.
Free prescriptions and glasses for carers
A heating allowance for carers because they dread the cold weather and the subsequent bills.
Care in the community is suitable for majority of people but each case should be assessed individually to ensure each person is treated for their needs. Health professionals should not go by the cheap option.
Elderly citizens need care and respect but they don’t get it because they are classed as unprofitable. Yet they gave us the society we have today.
We need a realistic TV documentary to be shown to raise awareness, something like the Cathy Come Home programme shown many years ago.
Carers are the forgotten ones and yet as you all know they save the country £87billion. It may seem easy to say these words, but when you see the reality, I’m sure it would upset you as much as it does me. From the last census we can assume there are carers who have not been included in these statistics, the hidden carers of our society, because they do not think of themselves as carers.
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2.Westminster trip highlights carers woes
KIM BRISCOE
15 June 2008 17:00
A woman from Norfolk has been to Westminster to try and highlight the plight of a carer who was told she needed to go back to work just 10 days after her husband died.
Wendy Maxwell, who founded the carers' website Chill4us in 2006, led a delegation of members of the site to meet MP Ivan Lewis, who is the government minister for care services.
Now North Norfolk MP Norman Lamb has taken up their cause and said he was appalled to hear of the case of a carer from Nuneaton who received a letter just 10 days after her husband died.
It referred to her “change of circumstances” and asked her to visit an office so they could discuss her return to work
Mr Lamb, who is also the Liberal Democrat spokesman on health, said: “It's traumatic enough to lose someone but to then be told in a cold and clinical way that your allowance is coming to an end and you have to travel somewhere to talk about getting back to work is awful.
“That person suffered a lot of distress as well as anxiety of losing a financial concession.
“We are asking that in these circumstances there is some financial cushion following the death of their loved one, and some time lag so that they can help an individual get back on their feet.”
Mr Lamb said the feedback he had from carers, particularly during National Carers' Week last week, was that more respite care was needed.
Mrs Maxwell, who is a carer herself, is now hoping to meet the shadow Conservative spokesman on health, so that the three main political parties are aware of the issues faced by carers.
She said: “I felt angry that this member of our site, who is from Nuneaton and does not want to be named, was sent this letter in January, just 10 days after her husband died. That's why I wanted to speak to Ivan Lewis.
“I think carers should be listened to and valued. We were lucky to meet Mr Lewis and I think we made an impact. He normally speaks to carers en masse or to carers' groups so he found it useful to meet a small group of carers themselves.”
The carers were accompanied by Moira Goodey, the manager of the carer support department at Norwich Mind, on their trip to quiz the minister on what he would do to provide more help for people in their position.
Mrs Goodey said: “Carers can become ill, severely depressed and stressed resulting from issues because of their caring role.
“There has been legislation to improve the rights of carers but that needs to be followed up with funding.
“I'd like to see some tax credit for carers, many of whom are not able to work full-time because of their caring roles and so are not eligible for tax credits.”
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